Velcro kitties: Tips for 9 to 5 guardians with over-attached cats

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For those of us lucky enough to be working these days, a nine to five gig is a blessing, but for our housebound feline room mates, this time of the day can be downright traumatic. The consequence of forming a tight and routine bond with our animals can often be displayed as anxiety when we leave the inner sanctum and decide to leave for the day.

Cats are solitary by nature. They can get along just fine without the company of another cat, although there are many exceptions to the rule. While maintaining a life of independence, they tend to bond strongly with their human caretakers, even when they are paired off. After all, we are EVERYTHING to them! Humans are the providers of love, conversation, physical comfort, food, water and interactive play. Another cat simply can not provide this.

How do you know if your cat is stuck to you like Velcro? My guess is…. you won’t even have to ask this question!

Signs Of Feline Separation Anxiety

  • Over-attachment to the owner such as following the person to every room of the house (heal chasing).

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    • Distress as the owner prepares to depart: This can take many forms, but some of the more common reactions are meowing, sulking, apparent depression, slinking away and hiding. (No, seriously it’s true!)cat-kitten-cute-picture-photo-meow-closeup
    • Vocalization (crying, yowling, meowing) right after the owner has left or even when you are sleeping.
    • Anorexia – the affected cat is often too anxious to eat when left alone.
    • Inappropriate elimination – often in the form of urine marking. Deposits of urine or feces are often near to the door from which the owner has departed or are on that person’s clothing, bed sheets, or places like bath mats, rugs and behind or under furniture.

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    • Excessive self-grooming. This starts as a displacement behavior but can progress to compulsive self-grooming if unchecked.

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    • Destructive behavior – rare, but some cats may claw and scratch door edges presumably in an attempt to escape their solitude. This can also happen while you are sleeping to get you to wake up and give them attention.
  • Exuberant greeting behavior – as if greeting you after you left on a long vacation. ( Where have you been ?!?!?!)

Here come the solutions!

Enriching the cat’s “home alone” environment is the key to success! This can be achieved by means of:

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Giving the cat a view of the outside world! Add climbing structures, cat trees, open windows with screens.

Strategically position bird feeders near the windows with a view.

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Leave toys all over the house and change it up every now and again. The same defeated mouse that your cat played with two days ago is no longer a challenge. Hide toys in creative places like the peek-a-boo box above.

Putting the day’s ration of dry food in a puzzle toy will keep your cat focused on eating instead of your absence. Although cats with separation anxiety tend not to eat when left alone, hunger is a great motivator when other sources (YOU) are no longer available. Some caveats apply if cats refuse to eat for more than a day or so. Consult your local vet if this turns out to be the case and try to work out some kind of compromise. It can get tricky.

Leave the radio on. The “white noise” effect of the radio drowns out the otherwise perturbing sound of silence. We find that classical music has positive effects on loneliness.

If behavior modification by independence training and environmental enrichment do not work it may be necessary to resort to anti-anxiety medication for the cat for a while. Consult with a veterinarian about the use of drugs like Prozac to help calm an anxious kitty.

Ok, Now go to work and rest assured that kitty is not making long distance calls, ordering pizza or rearranging your apartment while you are away.

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Comments

  1. I’m interested in your comment on music, mentioning the “classical” music category. We have a cat who seemed to like it when my husband practiced the banjo, until he got better at it (maybe?). The first year or so when he was a beginner, she’d go to the room where he practiced and doze in a basket on a desk. Perhaps when his speed improved and there was more variety to the tunes he played, she didn’t like it as well.

  2. Do you have any video of that? I’d want to find out more details.

  3. aine mcglinchey says:

    I took a few kittens from a woman, who was going to throw them in the river. they were all about 5 weeks old. I kept a little black/white tom, gave another to a friend and found homes for the other three. My tom, he isnt affectionate at all, unless im in my bed, but he is very very playfull. he follows me everywhere. At night, he sleeps in his bed, say i wake up at 4 for a drink of water. he will follow me to the kitchen. im lying relaxed in the livingroom and he is asleep, as soon as i get up…hes following me. I leave my flat, when i come back home hes right at the door. he has a ton of different types of toys, he doesnt like men. but the thing that i find really funny is, that hes very overly attached, but not affectionate. if im having a bath, he will do my head in, until i open the bathroom door and let him sit on the toilet seat. loki is about 6 months now and i i have no idea how to deal with the wee headcase

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